There will always be an ars%$#
There will always be an arsehole
Somewhere, sometime
There will always be one.
Its even easier these days to use social media, impersonal messages, emails
to bully, demean, steal your sunshine
However thats not about YOU.
You are the recipient – the target
Unfortunate that someones crap always has to spill out onto others
Yet it comes from their inability to deal with their own poop.
Think of it this way.
Remembering that aresholes are full of crap – literally – so its going to come out anyway
What happens is that holding it in means they are ready to explode
Its likely they have been holding it in because others aren’t putting up with it anymore
It can feel random, unwarranted, and usually is
They search for a vent – not a truth
So its unlikely to be personal or even relevant
You are just the object for the moment
It may have been an old connection
It most likely is because you appear to be getting life together
Posting happy pics on social media usually draws out the jealousy
Draws out the attention
However it should NOT steal your sunshine
The very millisecond you feel your light dim realise this
Its only your happiness that attracts the arseholes
Its your bright light that they cant find for themselves
They cant see it within themselves
So they try to either steal it
Or bring you down so they aren’t being reminded of what they think they are missing out on
The key to all this is that IF you let them pull you down
Even just for a moment
You are doing YOURSELF – AND THEM the greatest disservice
They need to reach out of that dark place
Thats their job. Their journey.
The sun shining out of an arsehole is of course a myth – as we know
They need to crawl out of the dark
Pull their head out of it
And it will only happen when they realise they cant beat us – they have to join us
Be there own light
Of course it doesn’t matter how empathetic or spiritual you are
It doesn’t mean you take responsibility for them finding their light
Thats martyrdom
And thats not serving anyone but ego.
They may be OK there. Leave them there
Your life isn’t all roses and puppy dogs is it ?
You choose to be happy
So can they.
Be brave
Be the role model for yours and your own
There will always be an arsehole
Their mission is usually to hurt, demean, take
Your mission is to be you, choose you, be happy
Hold your nose, raise your face and feel the warm sunlight glowing onto your cheeks
Stand tall and value where you have come from
Step boldly into your future
Live
Smile
ENJOY
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