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Strange yet true….

Its a strange feeling…

Catching up and finalising….

It is also interesting how ‘not finalising – not committing’ is similar to

not say things out loud

Worrying more about what the repercussions of your truth will have

on those around you

Worrying about someone else’s reaction

is giving your power away

Saying and doing what needs to be done for yourself

Feels weird – often

HOWEVER

It doesn’t feel wrong

It feels different

Which is unfortunate when you think about it…

Your truth feels right to you

Unless you have forgotten what your truth feels like

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Its not Psychic

I have a giggle

regularly

at how much I have instilled the reality

into my children

that I am truly psychic

and I know everything.

Now any mother will know

We know more then the child

due to our experience

which includes doing

EXACTLY

the same thing

at their age

and now seeing the other side.

My kids know quite well

That I AM psychic

I can tell them many things

right down to the colour of their underwear,

who they played with yesterday

and how much they ate for lunch.

Because I KNOW

doesn’t mean I look.

Now the fun part

and I do mean FUN

part

is when one of their friends

asks

‘How does you mum know that ?’

My kids

yes, it rolls off the tongue

answer instinctively…

She’s Psychic.

Most of them leave it at that.

Now one of my eldest sons friends

Who was just about lived with us at one stage

Asked ‘what does that mean ?’

My blessed Man child says – she just knows everything.

So I smile.

Of course I smile.

because I also knew that the boy needed a home

or at the very least – a place away from home –

and needed one where there was no bullcrap.

Knowing I knew everything – meant he didn’t bother.

He just enjoyed.

Why ?

No facade.

However – the point of the post.

You are all clever

You are all psychic too –

You have spider senses just like I

You just haven’t honed or fine tuned them.

My kids wondered how I knew they had eaten pizza

in the loungeroom

in front of the TV

No Doubt (I am psychic remember)

Feeding the dog as well.

?

Now my well trained brood….

Assume it’s because I am psychic.

I am not going to say I am not….

However I mop the floor

I see the pizza remnants

and I know my kids.

So you See

Its NOT PSYCHIC

Its just being a mum or dad.

Trust your instincts

and have a laugh

TRULY

What is wrong with kids thinking you know stuff ?

Nothing

Of course my kids are psychic too

So I laugh harder because

THEY SHOULD KNOW BETTER

Have a great day

xx

peace be with you

Vows of Silence

Some days I do not understand

Why there is the need for this facade

The facade that streams incredible intelligent people

into an envious position

or a position to be envious

of others.

Wondering why there is always so much fuss made of ‘others’

Others’ stuff

Others’ things

Others’ possessions

Others’ luck

Others’ incredible lives

Why is it that we

Our own brand of incredible

Needs to covet another ?

I do not understand

And I don’t understand how to include this sort of ‘why’

into the teaching I bring to my children.

because that is an issue for me

I wish to be a role model

I wish – to be honest –

to have all the answers

before they are asked of me

So that I

Can bring forth

a set of children

who know their worth

and that their worth is boundless

much like their energy

before the whole world takes over

and makes them question whom they are…

and what they are made of…

rather then just realising

they are nothing short of incredible

just the way they are.

Wondering why

has only led to looking externally

which leads us to seeking externally

as I have said before.

The truth is within.

So do NOT withhold the intention

the mere suggestion

that you are incredible

from yourself when you ask it

Yes – and you do ask it

A lot.

You ask yourself why

and what does ‘Why’ mean ?

It asks us to rationalise where we should just allow ourselves to shine

Shine and know the answer

rather then look internally and see nothing.

We seek externally

because we do not trust that the light that shines

from us internally

that is SO incredible

is possibly ours.

So for a moment.

Be Silent.

Know that your incredibility is TRUE

You are Incredibly YOU

Bless.

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Why you should STOP filling the space

You know its true.

We all DO it.

We try to fill the space

of that UNCOMFORTABLE SILENCE

Maybe – Just MAYBE

The discomfort – is your soul realigning

And you don’t let it do that enough

so you are WRONG

it is NOT incorrect

It is really not UNCOMFORTABLE

it is NEW….to you

NEW sensations are sometimes confronting

Yet thats no reason to NOT do something new….

Is it ?

Your soul

Your energy –

it is realigning

because

you gave it space to do so

Exhale

Every time you go to FILL the space with sound

with ENERGY

You do not allow yourself

to breathe

to realign

And……

There is another reason why

You should NOT fill the space….

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Healer – Heal thyself….Um….How ?

The words ring in my ear

From a teacher – taskmaster – friend – tormentor

Healer Heal Thyself…

…..

I tell my students

ALL

THE

TIME

You are perfection

Standing at the doorway

to infinite possibiities

The rest is your choice.

If Life is dishing you lemons

You dont have to always just ‘Suck them up’

Check in

Reality Check

Likely –

Its not you

Its situations

Energies

around you

That are impacting you

In some way

Or Another.

He used to say to me

“Healer – Heal Thyself”

And I would ask my teacher – how ?

He would look…

Smirk…

(yes I didn’t like him much some days)

and walk away.

Sheeeeeeeet.

So I decided

I would have to find out

I already KNEW

It would be the hard way.

Yet I knew it had to be.

I have the absolute good fortune

To count THE most amazing Healer as my friend.

Benjamin Venes

An AMAZING healer

A – Mazing.

I have had THE MOST AMAZING HEALING with him today.

Its something I need to do regularly.

Now I used to think that my Teacher meant I had to go and fix myself

Go and work out what was in need

And Self Heal.

And I did just that.

I actively healed myself.

Then

I realised.

(Because he slipped once and gave the game away).

He said – you have friends in high places.

AHA – penny dropped.

So….what he meant

Was…

Go and access the healing you need

Instead of sitting around

without balance

Without knowing

Incongruent to your truth.

The Key is simple.

When I feel out of kilter

And I don’t know exactly why..

The give away is what I like to call

‘Stinking Thinking’.

Melodramatic – I know.

It is thinking that pops into my mind

That is anything other then

  • Gratitude
  • Belief
  • Love
  • Compassion
  • Self Worth

It is the little questioning voice vs the voice of reason

It is the negativity

The second guessing

Ring any bells for you ?

I notice many small things and all are energetic.

Simple

Small.

Subtle more importantly.

Off Kilter.

And its time for a healing.

THE SECRET

IS

FIND

Yourself a Healer.

Because even a healer like myself

(and maybe more so…)

Needs to access those friends in high places

Who can be brought in

through the love

and healing

Of another.

SO DONT suffer in silence

Trying to heal thyself – thyself.

Access healing with those friends in high places

Either yourself – and thats completely fine…

Yet ALWAYS

Go and be the receiver.

regularly.

You can’t GIVE

What you can’t RECEIVE

Its part of the Universal Law.

A Rebel – and I have been known to be one at least once before…

Is about breaking limitations, stereotypes – Rules

Cleverness is a measure of picking the ones to break.

**Healer Heal Thyself 

and

**You can only give what you can Receive.

2 Biggies – dont break these.

Blessings

xx

blossom

Escaping is exciting right ?

There is something

exciting

about the ‘Escape’

It suggest

For a moment

That you have extracted yourself from something

Some clutches

Some force that you were with

Beholding too even….

The word escape conjures up images

Of taking your moment – or at least it does for me

Seize the moment and escape !!!

Now melodrama over,

When you feel the NEED to escape

There is a whole new motivation

It is driven by the basic concept of

NEED

Now Maslow built a whole hierarchy around it

and every conflict known to humanity

It about Needs and Wants and the tug of war that ensues

However

If I said to you – you need to take a break

Usually

Its because you look like you need to – energetically or physically

One of the MOST important things I encourage my Mentees

Whether in the Business or Spiritual Development Mentorship programs

Well actually all workshops on development…

Is to factor in the time for yourself FIRST

START there and build around it

It makes sense though doesn’t it ?

You are where everything starts

So start there

OTHERWISE

you will be

where everything

STOPS

Many times I discuss the fact

that you are the bottleneck to your own success

Why ?

because you wait till you feel the need to escape

Rather then having the objective time out

and feeling motivated to return to your passion

BIG DIFFERENCE

Escape vs passionately motivated.

Leave the ‘Escaping’ to the marketing slogans on the holidays away

You will have already marked out time for them before you start

Right ?

Its too late when you feel the need to escape.

It is NOT too late though.

If you are in the grips of ‘help me escape….’

Know you are feeling the need to escape

Escape

Factor in your NEXT escape

And you can work towards it.

For over 25 years my husband used to slog his way to Easter

Knowing that he was escaping

It kept him going from Xmas break.

Now that he has started a business from nothing in his 50’s

(Something he is actually passionate about let me tell you !)

And because he has spent some 30 years slogging his way through his days

He grinned at the prospect of escaping at Easter

Grinning vs praying for the day to come quicker so he could escape.

Sure we escaped,

yet it was escaping the everyday scenery

Not the everyday slog.

Escape for the right reasons

Not because you feel you can’t function if you don’t

Because it a little bit naughty and fun

Grinning

Not praying

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Never doubt yourself – share baby ! Share !

What you think is amazing

Don’t ever doubt your worth

When you come up with something

An idea

A solution

A catchphrase

Share it in your own voice

What do I really mean by that ?

Stop worrying about what others are doing

Don’t consider what is ‘trending’ right now

Unless you have a spare mill to check the market first

In that case

Go for it

However

Just remember….

That your voice and your brand is what people really want to hear

NOT your competitors

or a derivative of it

And thats what will happen

intentionally or otherwise

If you spend more time worrying about others

then you do allowing yourself to shine

Just be you

Its a sensational thing to be

and something NOBODY else can master

So stop mastering someone else

and Start being you

We will rejoice when you share it.

Don’t be disheartened when someone downloads

and shares your words and gems

as their own

and they will.

I have someone in mind who never ‘shares’

They download, save and upload as if its their own ‘find’

How do I know how this works ?

I wondered how she did it

and I experimented.

Always give credit where it is due

And know that when you share

wherever it ends up

is fabulous

Not sharing your gems

your pearls

now thats not fair

You are worth more then your worries

your concerns

Share

be Proud

I for one will be waiting

and smiling

Peace out

xx

peace be with you

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