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Party hard and getting sleep !

I giggle at my Mediumistic life.

Just because many don’t see, hear, or acknowledge the spirit world

Doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist

My students and clients will all concur

That I advocate for claiming your space

For keeping reasonable hours, and not being available to the spirit world 24/7

Every now and again, at 5/5.30am, when the veils are thinnest

(When most of the prolific dreams I interpret for people are recalled)

Bingo – I am aware.

It may be intentional by Spirit – someone with no boundaries or blissfully unaware

It may be my sensitivities – those spidey senses awoken

And at that moment (with no fear or trepidation) I decide what to do.

It takes no energy from me, just engage my perspective and decide.

I am not fully awake unless I decide its appropriate.


I am either exercising, getting ready for bootcamp, or sleeping.

More the latter than the former these days, however, that’s another blog

Sometimes its because I need to clear the space.

Usually, I do it gently and it’s about transition energy. Yet sometimes enough is enough and its throw out time.

It’s actually about claiming my space.

Now all this mumbo jumbo about veils etc is relative right?

It’s your reality. It’s not 5/5.30am in Europe, is it?

Australian spirit world vs Europe and US spirit world – like really think about it.

It’s about your reality and where you are at. Your body clock, your energetic makeup.

It’s not mumbo jumbo at all – unless you say it without having any concept of what you are speaking of.

Last week I was woken by a song around 4am. I LOVE my sleep so I don’t get crappy about it, I want to know why?

I want to solve, resolve, and rebalance.

I take responsibility for my choices and for what is NOT mine – just as easily.

And I saw my phone light up.

There was a show online from the states and a loved one came through with a message for me within about 2 minutes of me opening the feed.

Ask yourself why. It’s about taking control of your own choices in the smallest and biggest way necessary.

This morning. 5.30am?

My circus? No.

So I cleared out the room this morning, without considering who what or where because it wasn’t my circus come to town. The spirit world arranges the rest.

I considered what else – and picked up my phone and the messages from the UK were EXCITING, to say the least.

Is it scary?  Oh Hell no.

What does it look like? It looks like having to get up and throw out the partygoers so you can sleep.

Have you asked why there are partygoers in the first place?

Its because I am human, mum, have teenagers, had tradesmen in the house, am dealing with transition in the family, and though a responsible and strong educated traditionally trained medium, life is a moving feast, and there is no perfection, no experience without experiences.

I love my sleep

So there better be a good reason I am woken up!

Usually, there is

Sometimes I just forget to check the boundary fence xx

It’s all part of the experience. That’s how we learn.

Am I tired? No. Suns shining, exciting times ahead.

Stay tuned…. The worlds await



Healing – Abundantly simple

I love when I receive messages asking for healing

It is given without condition, always and forever

Because it is from the universe through me – it is never taking from me

So why is this important to understand?

There is no – ‘they are not deserving’

There is no – ‘I haven’t enough to give’

Because it is not being taken from you – nor is it being threaded from you or to you

So consider this then,

People can be a-holes to you –

What they really need is healing

People attack you energetically –

What they really need is healing

Aggressive messages?


People send you healing and love

Call healing for them too

It is not like chocolate – there’s no overload with healing…

We exude it 🙂

They likely think they can take from you – by getting your attention

What they think is they NEED something YOU have – that they don’t

So then,

It is from the universe through you – never taking from you

There is no – ‘they are not deserving’

There is no – ‘you haven’t enough to give’

So it is important to understand because you are better equipped to ask on their behalf

They are not equipped with the clarity

So trapped in the unhappy place that they won’t ask for what they need more than anything

So make it right in your head so you do the right thing

The thing you are equipped to do at that moment

And my goodness there will be loads of these moments…

Give the Universe permission to bring the healing around them that they need

And move along.

It IS that simple.

Because someday you might be that person too – even for a minute, or a day

Don’t live there – just do what is needed and leave it to the experts

And move along knowing you have done what is needed for yourself too

That’s right,

Ask for yourself as well


If you think of it this way you don’t consider what has been done or is being done to you

You won’t consider ‘deserving’, ‘right’, ‘wrong’

Importantly you won’t dredge up feelings

You won’t feed the fueled fire

You won’t be triggered

So you need less rebalancing yourself and have more of your own energy available for the good things in life that you know we have worked hard for

Realise that nobody can rain on your parade. Maybe a light overspray is felt,

We are here for experiences and relationships – good, mediocre and bad.

Yet keep it simple.

Don’t buy in – it’s not necessary

Its just people’s way to let you know they need healing

And you call it for them yet it doesn’t come from you.

And move along

The greatest teacher for us is life.

bruce lee

Noisy F%$#rs arent they….

Do you realise

That the harshest voice in your head – is yours ?

Perpetuated by conditioning of old most likely

We allow ourselves to be labeled

Initially, we want identity

And we like it

It helps us make sense of the world

That’s when you were 5.

However, at some point

We began to believe

That ALL labels were true

Those we encouraged for ourselves

Those beautiful and loving ones

Somehow made way for those Shi%$y ones

They crept into our dictionary, our vocabulary

And when the going gets a little hairy

They come out

They creep out and give us a vocabulary

Now the words themselves aren’t bad

They are just an alphabet arranged

How we USE them is where the damage is done

The words each time used

Become easier to say and hear

Those noisy words that roll off the tongue

Become easier to wear

And in the silence – in your mind –

Nobody can point out how destructive and wrong they are

How wrong YOU are about YOURSELF

Yet those noisy little f&%@ers label

And unless you stop the labels early – they become ingrained

However, all is not lost !

In fact I bet some of those noisy little lines say you are lost – right ?

The moment you stop the noise

The moment you say no – I am more than that label.

It stops. Instantly.

In fact – find a new word

Get the goddam thesaurus happening

Find 20 new ways to say A-mazing

Find 12 new words for passion, empowered, soulful

And label away – yet choose the right label

Not those Noisy little f$@%#rs of old

That does NOT serve you

Be passionate

Be Bold

Don’t be your own worst enemy

Peace. xx

words spells

A compliment you say ? Ba-humbug

Many of us who have a creative flair

And a passion

That we are blessed to be using for our day to day work

Always see what we develop or birth into the world like a song

Our workshops, our classes, our ideas

Being duplicated by others

Many say ‘ it’s a compliment’

Hurt as it might…


Don’t shoot the messenger – hear me out

It happens everywhere

Every Industry

Its human behavior at its laziest

Its a sign of the competitive nature combined with the times

The ability to cut and paste

Thesaurus will find you special words

Plagiarism 101 can see through that

I have to tell you what you need to hear…..

So can our clients.

Our clients see through it

It’s easy to get annoyed

And to be honest – fairly reasonable

Yet we are not able to service everyone – are we ?

We are not able to be everywhere – right ?

And whats worse is that its a distraction that you dont need

It is the DISTRACTION that sucks the life out of you – NOT the lazy lot

That person who is lazy enough to just cut and paste

Can I get you to relax for just a moment and ask yourself

What are they going to do in that class or workshop they copied from you ?

They arent YOU

They havent your words

They havent your passion, your energy, and certainly not your creativity !

So chalk it up to the modern age and know theses #&%ers will always do it

They will attract their clients

And guess what ? THOSE clients are not your type of client either !

WE notice the lazy copiers – and so do our trusted tribe

We get messages ‘have you seen what they are doing ?” its YOUR work

They are frustrated for us

However its not YOU

And YOU can NOT be reduced, disempowered, overshadowed

minimalised, silenced or loved any less.

Head held high

Pissed off as you are

Rightly so

Your tribe will find you

Their tripe will find them

Someone has to be the also-ran

I will give you the tip

If you dont let it distract you

It will NEVER be you

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Be Wise

When you look at an owl sitting in a tree – do you think he realises how wise he is – do you think he is wise ?

Is it because he sits their quietly that you think he is watching you ? Or is he just comfortable in his own skin.

We will never find out – however we will make assumptions because of our own perceptions – not our own experiences. 

Is that wise ??

Are we just over thinking it when we see a cool bird with feathers who has seemingly appeared as if by magic in our lives.

We are doing such a lot of work – and all he does in appear in our lives. He needn’t fly, do a happy dance – he just comes and sits there and we enjoy his energy.

We love to see him and enjoy having been in his presence. No fanfare. Just him being who he is.

The fact he sits there quietly and comes from nowhere to appear in our lives is enough to make us stop and think.

Be the owl.

When we stand on platform, quietly connecting to that which nobody can see….do you think people look at us and wonder…are we wise….are we comfortable in our own skin…..or are we just standing their just being who we are whilst everyone waits and wonders.

We arrive into peoples lives as if from nowhere, and we can only hope to have such an impact.

We can only hope that if people see us, they stop and do this for themselves, do that much work and reflecting – maybe they will look at us in that same way.

When you stand on platform and live your mediumship…there is no need for fanfare, no need for anything but your presence.

Be owl – be yourself- because like Owl, you absolutely enough just by being you xx


Busy is not always productive

Being Busy isn’t always a productive thing

We are so busy sometimes that we don’t have 5 seconds to stop and say “this isn’t my shit’

I am passionate about my choices and what I want to do

Such a revelation when you just stop and realise the noise is not from your fans and supporters

Think of it as the rumblings of change

The breaking down of old platforms

Break new ground if you have to, however, make sure it’s your plan, not the noise of others that is your guiding light

heart or not at all

Everyones an expert

I keep wanting to do a video on this theme but with everything going on in the family at the moment, its been on the list too long already

Have you ever noticed that the ones who make the most noise

Arent actually the ones who are doing so for your benefit ?

Think about it.

The people who judge you so harshly

And happily tell you so

And anyone else who will listen…

Arent likely to be your customers

Nor your friends ?

I am pointing this out for ONE reason.

Do NOT change your ways because of ‘others’ words

Change if you feel its right.

The ones who are so vocal about what you do and how you do it ?

They arent likely to join your program or refer you

You arent going to get everything right

You wont get anything right if you are guided by what others box you into

Listen to your own inner voice

Its the one who got you to this point right ?

With so many amazing experiences along the way

Possibly not all positive, yet thats the thing about experiences.

They bring you perspective.

That much needed perspective so you can sift and choose between the options that make your life a symphony.

Everyone musician plays a wrong note. Some play a whole chorus incorrectly

Some play the same note incorrectly over and over

However, no symphony is ever heard if you dont play that note – and dont try.

Next time you even THINK about not doing something because of the backlash or words of others – or how they make you feel – STOP

Are they congruent with your dreams ? The failings of others

Or are they just naysayers who should move along and let you be.

They were never looking to be your friend – well maybe they were – however have no idea what that actually means

They are certainly not looking to be your client

And will not refer you

So DONT listen to the so called experts until you take a close look at their motivations

And most importantly DO NOT give up on your ways or your dreams because of the noise of others

They are perspective – not the rules. Despite what they may say……

good person

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