Nearly Nearly isn’t good practice
At this time of year, people – well I can only speak for myself…
I ask myself what Do I want to keep doing – and why.
I want to continue things because I enjoy them
Or do I do things because I am contracted to do them for example
They are not the same thing at all.
So if you think about it
Why cant they be the same?
Because there is usually a timeframe around the latter.
Potentially a responsibility not a ‘liking’ for the connection.
So if you decide that you don’t want to continue doing something
Then find out the constraints
And decide if there is an option you hadn’t thought of
And mark out the time frame.
Then ask yourself how can I make the most of the time I have to flush away while I am stuck.
If you have to then you have to
Nobody says you cant make the best of it because you don’t like it.
And the difference here is mindset.
Mindset will give you perspective
And mindset will help you strategise
Remaining positive in a roomful of naysayers isn’t easy
Yet its always doable
If you remember that you are the only one in control of your mindset.
Others trying to stomp on it cant get in – they can only impress their mindset on you.
So what do you want to keep doing?
Do that as much as you can.
Not Nearly Nearly….
Do that bit wholeheartedly.
You deserve to choose at least that for yourself.
What don’t you want to continue?
Or at the very least modify – even if its your viewpoint towards it
Hopefully you can ditch that which no longer serves you
And with it, the people who don’t either
Be in your happy bubble
There is such incredible strength within you.